Secrets Revealed: Why Men Don't Contact You

Yes, ladies. Men don't call. You wait by the telephone for hours, even days, waiting for them to call or text you dorsum, simply you lot go nothing. Until they experience the demand to contact yous when it suits them. They brand some excuse well-nigh being busy or sick or whatever, you are so happy they contacted you that y'all buy it and move on, until the side by side time the same thing happens. I'm here to make your life so much happier, and easier, with something that was a great revelation to me when I chose to accept it. This, my friends, is secrets revealed: why men don't contact you. OK perhaps information technology's not that big of a underground … But read on!

Why Men Don't Contact You

I have learned this lesson the hard fashion. When things looked, and felt promising, I had no reason to believe he wouldn't phone call or text, but then he didn't, or took his sweet old fourth dimension stringing me forth. This happened with several men, as those of you lot who follow my web log can adjure to. I used to give men the do good of the uncertainty, yous know, saying "oh he's probably as well busy to telephone call" or "maybe his phone isn't working" but I speedily learned that's not the case. Truth is, most men are not brave, or honest, enough to tell you lot they're not interested in pursuing anything with you or that they accept "other interests". Perhaps, as well, you were the fun they wanted for a short flow of fourth dimension and they are finished with you and have moved on to the side by side target. You know which ones I'yard talking virtually, they chase you like you're a hot commodity and then when they actually get to go out with you they don't call anymore. It could be something you said or did, but more oft than not they just lost interest (y'all know, like kids with a new toy?).

Why Men DO Contact You

Men contact you lot because they want to. It'due south uncomplicated really. When a human being is interested in yous he won't get out you alone. It could be for very honorable reasons, or because he tin't resist your, um, charms. Either mode, he will contact you. They call y'all, you don't even have to contact them, they are crazy nigh you and want you all for themselves. They don't want to requite the chance to any other homo to have you. Fifty-fifty less than assertive males will behave this way. Even if they lost your number there are countless other ways to find you lot online. It's not very hard. If they desire to, they volition. Hard to go or not, if someone wants you they want you, regardless of how you play it.

Women Are The Aforementioned

The same goes for women. Think of yourself ladies, when you like a guy and desire to pursue something with them y'all tin can't get plenty. You call him, text him, find any way to get shut to them. What about the guy you're "meh" about or not interested in at all, or the i you've already told that you lot don't want to exist with? If you're like me, you avoid them at all costs. You either don't reply to them at all or wait a while to respond with short, unengaging answers. Even when I've been clear near my intentions, some men don't give up, ladies, are you the aforementioned? Think about it! How nigh the guy you felt bad to say no to when he asked for your number or for a java date? Yous didn't want to say no, but you really aren't interested, and so you avoid their messages. Women do the same things men do, we just don't always realize it.

Lesson of the Day?

Don't blame yourself if someone didn't contact you lot. More ofttimes than not it's non your fault. Information technology says more about them than most you. Y'all are who you are and if someone doesn't like you lot for what yous have to offer, then someone else will appreciate it. Cliche? No, reality. So don't wait around for that call that'due south never going to come up. If they haven't contacted you back or have a long time to reply then they non only aren't interested, they don't respect y'all enough to respond and yous don't demand someone who doesn't respect yous. Don't be needy and annoying contacting them several times. Accept the high route and move forward.

REMEMBER: If Someone Wants To Be With You They Will Be & If He/She Wants to Contact You They Will (Taken from my Single Dating Diva-isms)

Plain. Unproblematic.

Your Sis in Dating Bliss,

Unmarried Dating Diva

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